Wednesday, September 27, 2006

Sometimes, when we decide to give the very best of everything to our love ones, do we have the idea for them to return twice as much of what we gave? If we're, we simply didn't treat them as close enough. Some people just treat money as heaven. For money, they don't even give a damn about who you are to them. In fact, they'll severe their relationships with you for money, heartless. It's still alright if something like this happened between friends, you can always stop all the ties between each other. But what about families? Disown them? Just for money? Worth it? Is money really that important? Something sort of happened to me in the past and now, money is absolutely meaningless to me. Friends who know me well enough will know how I treat money. It just come and go and I don't really care about it. Ain't that I'm wealthy but, I don't really see it as something significant anymore. People out there who think that money is everything, please, keep a distance away from me. I just despise people who're like that.

Well, dealing with these three words which candis provided me, ( pretty. sweet . egoistic ), which is the most difficult for us to achieve? After a tough consideration, I shall say, egoistism.

Pretty and sweet is just something external. However, in order to achieve egoistism, you seriously need some self-discipline. For the sake of self-centered and preoccupied with oneself. Example, for a lady, her goal of the year is to achieve a decrease of 10 kg in her mass. Just with this sentence, what mindset should the lady have? Integrity, self-discipline and perseverance. This three points is straight forward and very important.

Firstly, she needs to check her weight every now and then, recording the most accurate value of what she gotten is important. ( Example, if she's 60 kg, she shouldn't delude and claims that she's 58 kg. ) Secondly, when she's already made up her mind not to eat in a meal, she should persevere till the end and not gonna affect by the ones around her who's trying to tempt and urge her. Thirdly, after she had finally achieve her goal, she's should always bear in mind that she has come this far and should feel proud of what she've gotten, hold on to it at all cost and shouldn't let her hardwork gone to waste.

Summarising, once you've made up your mind, always think in a positive way and never regret what you've done. It's just so stupid to do so. Trust your taste, believe your rights, be egoistic. Do not let the people around you affect your decisions.

- You're beautiful, no matter what they say. Words can't bring us down. ^-^

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